The Best Dating Tricks For Women

Dating is a minefield. Not literally, that would be dangerous, unless you were dating a minesweeper. But figuratively, it is full of pitfalls, pratfalls, and a myriad of other places you can screw up and ruin the possibility of spending the rest of your life with Mr. Right. However, that doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be attempted. Done right, dating can be the portal to an entirely new world, an entirely new you, and an entirely new love life.
The trick to dating is to make sure that you are confident in yourself. This is easier said than done. Often when people are dating, they are at a low point in their lives, either just out of a relationship, or worried that they will never find someone new, and that guys simply do not like them. This is completely not true, but it is still a mental virus which travels through our brains. The trick then is to fake it ’til you make it. You have to believe yourself to be confident, and then you will outwardly express the right characteristics. To do this, there are three key components to making sure that you come across as the most confident women in the room…

be confident

You need to be confident when you date


A big mistake people make, especially on first dates is to clam up. They are so worried about revealing all of their idiosyncrasies that they end up revealing nothing of their personality at all. We have all been on dates with people like this, and no doubt behaved like this on dates ourselves. They are the quiet ones, who you try to get to open up and tell you a bit about themselves, but will only answer with yes, or no, or the most brief of comments.

Don’t let this be you.

Make sure you have engaging and interesting stories to tell. Most people think they are dull and have nothing to say, but nothing could be further from the truth. Everyone had something funny happen to them in their childhood. Hell, everyone probably had something funny happen to them last week. Talk about what you love, what you want to do, what you wanted to do, your favorite foods, films, flowers, whatever – just make sure you have something to say.

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make sure you listen as much as you talk

… but not too open

But obviously do not take it too far. Conversation is good, but when you start to dominate conversation and turn it round to be all about you, and feel like you want to tell this person everything, then it is time to shut up. You can be more and more open as you get to know the person, but try not to lay everything on the table immediately. This is a real turn-off for guys, as they end up thinking about exactly how much of your life together you are going to share with everyone.

Also, you do not want to hog the conversation. Conversations are two-way. If you are doing all the yapping then the other person is likely to become very bored very quickly. It also shows that you have little to no interest in them if all you do is talk about yourself. Make sure that you are asking questions as well as answering them, and that you are both really maintaining a duologue, rather than your monologue about the state of the world today.
Finally, it is important to maintain some mystery. If you lay yourself out on the table (OK, he might like that!), then you are an open book. He can tell everything about you and there will be no allure or mystery, and therefore no reason really for further dates. If instead you make sure you are holding something back, teasing information, and giving him little glimpses into your thoughts and personality, then he will always want to come back to find out more.

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Have fun dating

Leave The Baggage At Home

Lastly, even if you do end up talking a lot, there are always going to be some topics that are off limits, particularly at the start of dating and at the start of a relationship. If you had a bad break up previously, or have had a hard time in life in general, then think about the right time to talk about this. It is unlikely to be when you are having your starters on date one. That isn’t to say you these topics are taboo forever more, of course you should talk about them eventually, but negative talk, particularly regarding previous boyfriends is going to start your new relationship off on the wrong foot. You should be thinking about how great this opportunity is, rather than worrying about how bad previous partners were.
Following these simple rules can make sure that any guy you date is calling back within a day for a second date, and that you have the chance to meet new people and really engage with them in a meaningful way.

The Worst Places To Break Up A Relationship

When enough is enough, there has to be a breakup. You’ve given your partner another chance or two and they still blew it. It is never easy or enjoyable and it is always going to cause some pain, even to you. The things that attracted you to your partner just aren’t enough anymore and you have to move on to carry on with your life. Whether you both grew apart or ended up disagreeing over a core belief, cheated on each other or any other reason for a relationship to fall apart, you need to know how to break up with your partner.

When you choose to break up with your partner, where you do it and how you do it is of utmost importance. You’ll often not be in a good place to break up but you will know that you have to do it sooner rather than later.

The problem arises when you break up with your partner in the wrong place.
This problem is what they will recall about you, making it impossible to maintain a good friendship with them due to the way that you treated them at the breakup.

how to breakup

How to break up

If you are looking for the right place to make a break up happen, make sure that you don’t do it at your own home. A lot of people think that if they bring their partners to their house to break up, that everything will be all right in the end.Breaking up with your partner in the comforts of your own home isn’t a good idea because if they start to take things the wrong way and get angry, you have no way of leaving so that they can get a hold of their feelings for themselves. In addition to this, they could damage your house or possessions and will feel cornered. Giving your partner control over you when you are breaking up with them just isn’t a good idea.

Amongst the same lines, breaking up with someone on a bus/train/plane is a bad idea for many of the same reasons. You can’t leave until you are at your destination and there is absolutely no privacy here. It is dangerous to have shouting, emotionally charged people on public transport.

One of the worst ways I can think of to break up with someone is when you are on holiday or at some kind of event. You’ve travelled hundreds if not thousands of miles for this and then one of you decides that it is time to finish your relationship. If you’ve travelled to a festival, you have to spend your breakup surrounded by happy, drunken people and you are likely to make some mistakes that you wouldn’t if you were sober. The money wasted by ruining a perfectly good holiday can’t be recovered and sharing your accommodation with your partner won’t be the most enticing proposition.

In addition to this, you partner might decide that they are just going to leave and get as far away as possible from you. Whilst this is fine when you are in your native country, many people get lost and if you are in a dangerous country, there can be severe consequences to walking off the beaten path. Just wait until you get back to your own country to make the breakup happen. You’ll enjoy the holiday more and as a bonus, you get to have fun on your holiday.

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When should you break up?

Breaking up in the presence of other people is also a pretty bad idea. If you know the people that are around, they will often take sides and argue with each other, which means you’ll be ruining more than one relationship. If you don’t know the people around you, you’ll embarrass your partner in public. Neither of these things are a good idea for a good breakup.

I shouldn’t have to mention this, but make sure you break up with your partner in real life, rather than via a text message/phone call/e-mail. Each of these shows utter disrespect for the time you spent with your partner and it also means you’ll make them angry. If you can’t possibly meet them in real life that is they only time you should instigate a breakup via digital means.

The best place to break up with your partner can be difficult to find. Finding a neutral place to meet, which doesn’t have many other people milling around is perfect. Meeting in a quiet café where you can go upstairs or downstairs away from other people can work and so can an empty park. Break ups are very personal and to make sure that you have a good one, spend a little time trying to find the best place to break up with your partner.

3 Biggest Dating Mistakes We All Make Using Online Dating Sites

Computers can do a whole lot of work faster than we could do manually, and Internet has only added to this speed. But expecting the online dating sites to find us a partner, as of yesterday, merely because of these facts is a bit naïve. In real life, we are cautious about many things when we look for a partner, so why can’t we do the same on these dating sites? We, however, expect the prospective date to be as per order so we list a whole lot of expectations and aspirations out there. If the desire to find a date on these websites is sincere, and the person is not just toying with the idea, then finding a right partner would not be so difficult and time consuming. Here is a list of 3 biggest dating mistakes we all make using online dating sites.

a. We lie.

Yes, Internet allows us to do that. We also use others pictures to get people interested in us. However, this can only leave us frustrated. This is because we are aware that we lied, and so we cannot afford to meet this adorable date in person. That means, we can chat, send mails, discuss issues, but never meet. At some point, this prospective date would give up, and look for another person. So how did it really help?

b. We load a lot of information about ourselves forgetting that a dating site is only a facility that lets another person get acquainted.

Prospective date would not be interested in our qualifications, our vacations, our influential acquaintances, etc., when he or she is being introduced. In fact, many people who choose to look for a date on these sites do not want to read long essays about our trials and tribulations, our divorces, our abusive partners, and so on and so forth. For starters, we need to concentrate only on our physical attributes and take it further from there. This happens in real life as well, so why should it be different on dating websites?

Ladies: 5 online dating mistakes you're making -

Ladies: 5 online dating mistakes you’re making -

However, we list a whole lot of things, and expect our prospective dating partner to go through that list and take a call. It is like, if you meet these conditions, then send a message, else don’t bother. This can only scare some people away, and some of them may have several attributes that we would find desirable. When the right date comes along, it might even be easy to compromise on some of our personal desires, because those desires may cease to be important when compared to other plus points that the person may have. This is the reason it is better not to have rigid approach. This also does not mean that we should appear to be bending over our backs to find a date. Some people try to show they are fun loving folks, and upload many of their activities depicting their idea of fun. This is hardly going to help because fun loving folks do not scream their guts out about their nature. Such information only makes the person sound desperate for a partner.

c. Internet is also a place where some unscrupulous people roam about without being restricted.

Not everybody coming on net is reliable. So decision to meet and trust the person immediately would be a mistake most of the time. Personal information such as finances and even information about children should be revealed much later in the relationship, if at all. Likewise, things that would embarrass us should be kept in the closet, and revealed only when the relationship reaches its logical conclusion. Expecting fairy tale ending is also not right. Such things only happen in story books or in movies like Pretty Woman. In short, a realistic approach is absolutely essential because it is unlikely that Hugh Grant would walk in there, in search of a partner, or Angelina Jolie ran short of admirers.

Online dating sites are becoming an increasingly more popular resource for

Online dating sites are becoming an increasingly more popular resource for

3 Fitness Apps You Should Be Using

Every medic out there will tell you how vital it is to be physically fit and the countless dividends with which physical fitness comes with. In that eternal list of benefits of keeping yourself physically fit will always include some more added years to your life, more strength, bones that are stronger, less fat accumulation in your body, an excellent mood, a rather focused mind, and above all an exceptional sleep every night!

What to Look for When Settling for a Fitness App

Perhaps the greatest challenge will be to know exactly what fitness app will be of help to you; as such you must research thoroughly and make enough inquiries before opting for a particular fitness app. It will thus be prudent to settle for those fitness apps developed by renowned companies whose records are above bar. Moreover, the app must have a ‘rich’ history and an indispensable name out there among its users.

1. My Fitness Pal

My fitness pal has been hailed as the world’s most useful fitness app. Among smart phone apps, My Fitness Pal has repeatedly made it to the top ten Forbes Weight Reduction Apps. It has been customized in such a way that it can monitor your lifestyle, your height, your weight and can further make necessary recommendations as far as weight reduction means are concerned.

3 fitness apps you need right

3 fitness apps you need right

Most outstanding feature of My Fitness Pal is its platform that allows its users to share their ‘dividends’ online via social media such as Twitter and Facebook. Its users can also set targets of calories intake. Say you order a meal in a restaurant for instance; My Fitness Pal will enable you to establish the calorie amount on that meal! And guess what, the app is absolutely free of charge!

2. SparkPeople

This is another fitness app that will undoubtedly yield meaningful results for its users as soon as last year! It is also free of charge, has been variously proven and tested and does allow its users to monitor the food they consume.

Additionally, the fitness app allows its users to share their tips, tricks and ‘developments’ made with other users online. It has been widely published in Medical Journals and ‘prescribed’ by countless Fitness Trainers world all over.

3. CSPI Chemical CuisineNike Training Club

Perhaps this is one of the most widely used ‘pocket trainer‘ fitness app. Other than being an absolutely free fitness app, it is customized with a complete diary for your ‘preferred’ food that is meant to keep on track all your ‘hustles and bustles’ of trying to monitor your weight.

And just like the above mentioned fitness apps, it has a platform that allows its users to twit and face book their ‘achievements’ online. Most unique feature of this app is its ‘reward’ platform that offers its users a chance to access professional tips and training from notable physical fitness instructors online.

Technology and Weight Loss:

Technology and Weight Loss:

Whichever fitness app you will settle on, always follow the instructions therein. This way, you can be sure of reaping the maximum ‘dividends’ at the end of your ‘fitness training’ session. Again remember to share online with others. You can learn the ‘ropes’ and be a real tiger!

Handy, Free, And Educative iPad Apps For Kids

iPad has certainly revolutionized the way we work and enjoy the entertainment system. Not only this gadget can be used to manage your work better – you can use the emails, the work application, and so many more – you can also enjoy so many entertainment systems. You can take pictures, stream videos, watch movies, and so many more. And now, the iPad can also be used to entertain and improve your kids’ ability. Who says that iPad is only beneficial for adults? iPad can also be used to help your kids learn things. Moreover, there are lots of free of charge applications that you can try, so you can get lots of benefits at the same time. You can make sure that your kids are having fun while learning new things, and you don’t need to spend a dime to have them installed within your gadget.

The Memory Game

Having such memory game is fun. Not only the gale is fun to played, it can also boost the kids’ memory so they have improved ability on memorizing things. One application that you should install within your gadget is the Kids Can Match. This matching application comes with cute animal design along with their sound as well. With the sound and the cute model, the game is very engaging and appealing, especially for toddlers. The game is set in levels, where each next stage level will be more difficult than before. Another cool thing about this game is the kids will be shown of how to spell the names of the animals. So not only the kids learn about the animal shapes, sounds, and looks, they also learn about new vocabularies.

The Memory Pro Free is also another fun game that kids can try. It shows bubbly and colorful pictures of different kinds of animals – along with the scoring system that will challenge the kids. Even them will be appealed to try harder. The key factor to this game is to remember the location and spot of the animal picture. The game may be simple, but it is fun and really addictive.

The Red Fish for Kids

This game is designed for babies and young toddlers by Fresh Planet. The designer has been involved in lots of puzzles, mini games, and different learning activities, so they know what they are doing. There are 50 activities packed within this package, which involves numbers, music, letters, problem solving, and also drawing. The interface system is colorful, clear, and bright, so kids will love it! moreover, with different activities and stuffs to do, kids will be busy playing – and learning new stuffs at the same time.

RedFish 4 Kids for iPad on the

RedFish 4 Kids for iPad on the

The Monkey Preschool Lunchbox

This game is full of bright colors since it is designed for younger toddlers – about two and three years old. Kids will be encouraged and challenged to complete puzzles and challenges that may seem simple, but they can boost performance and also memory. The game mostly incorporates counting, color, object matching, and letters in intuitive and fun ways.

Monkey Preschool Lunchbox

Monkey Preschool Lunchbox

For older kids, you can try the Spelling Grade 1-5 which will teach kids how to spell word in fun ways. The app can show them how they can spell the words and how to memorize it. it is certainly a very handy and educational app that teachers can also implement at school. The great thing about these apps is that they are free and can be easily found and installed.

Achieving Your Financial Freedom: 3 Stocks To Invest Your Tax Refund In

Investing tax refund can be challenging especially if you do not investment ideas on how to choose viable investments for future financial gains. Most Americans as well as other people from the rest of the world do not have an idea on how to make this investment opportunity a reality. There are many ways to invest your tax refund, but for now, I will give you the three best stocks to invest this refund.

The following are the stocks to invest in:


Since this is a long-term investment, choosing to invest in shares can be a wise decision to make. These are the most viable stock to invest your tax refund. The rewards are higher, so is the risks. Depending on the performance of the shares on the trading floor, you will get either loss or gain. You must also do your personal research on which shares to buy in order to avoid loss after purchase.

You may also need to seek professional tip on which shares to purchase in order to maximize your returns. Always remember that the higher the risk of a particular stock, the higher the rate of return forms the particular investment.

Let's do a little investment

Let’s do a little investment

2. Bonds such as treasury bills, notes, and debentures

Investing in fixed income securities such as treasury bills, notes, bond, and debentures can be rewarding. One advantage of these stocks is that their values are not influenced by the market performances as opposed to the risky stocks such as shares.

Use the tax refund to purchase government bills, notes, and debentures. Since they are not determined by the market performance, you are guaranteed a certain percentage of reward after specific time duration.

The net return might not be as high as shares, but you are guaranteed a certain percentage of return from your investment. Make a step and invest your tax refund and you will be guaranteed a given net reward.

3. Financial derivatives

Investing in financial derivatives such as forwards, options, futures, and commodities among other derivatives can be the best in option for these funds. You can buy natural oil forward or option to sell at a predetermined future date. With the current volatility in the prices in the natural oil gas products, this can be a great investment opportunity for this idle fund.

Alternatively, you can also buy a forward contract of oil gas in the market. This allows you to sell this product in the future at the agreed price. When the oil prices rises compared to the buying price, you can sell the product to earn the arbitrage opportunity difference as the profit.

What Is a Debenture Bond?

What Is a Debenture Bond?

Lastly, on financial derivatives, you can opt for commodity. You can choose any product such as gold price, which is known to be ever rising. Within the first year, you may sell the gold at the market making a huge profit from the market arbitrage.

I believe the above information will help you have an idea on how invest your tax refund to achieve a financial stability and freedom as fast as possible without any financial pressure.

5 Linkedin Mistakes That Could Be Dragging You Down

If you are failing to utilize the networking or job seeking power that Linkedin offers, chances are you’re making one of these terrible mistakes. Seasoned recruiters and head-hunters, who swift through hundreds of Linkedin profiles every day, say there are a lot of mistakes that people commonly make on their profiles that put hiring managers off. Read the list below to determine if you’re guilty of a huge Linkedin fail.

1. Your Display Picture is Unprofessional or Missing

As the cliché goes- a picture is worth a thousand words. Studies indicate that profiles with pictures have a much higher chance of being clicked on by recruiters. Some recruiters actually spend more time examining the candidate’s picture than reviewing their qualifications. Lack of a picture may also communicate low confidence and self esteem.

On the other hand, having a profile picture that is unprofessional is considerably worse than not having one at all. A picture that seems to have been clicked by your kid with a cellphone or by your buddy on Saturday night is likely to send recruiters in the other direction. Unprofessional pictures on Linkedin communicate the wrong message, don’t confuse Linkedin with Facebook This one is easy to fix, get a professional photographer to click some publicity pictures in professional attire. Have an objective person (not you mother or spouse) pick out the best one.

Whether or not you've updated it, your LinkedIn

Whether or not you’ve updated it, your LinkedIn

2. You have Typos on your Profile

A lot of people are not as careful about their Linkedin profiles as they would be with their resumes; especially since Linkedin doesn’t feature a built-in spell check. This is a big mistake. Recruiters commonly come across profiles with terrible spelling errors, ranging from misspelled job titles, company names and to their own names. Grammatical mistakes in descriptive sections can also be a huge put-off. Having such errors suggests that you are either careless or incompetent. Avoid this horrible faux pas by running the text through a spelling and grammar check before posting it on your profile. You can use either MS word or a web based tool. Alternatively, you could also have a professional proofread your profile for you.

3. Your Title is Vague and Unclear

Another mistake that a lot of people make is not giving enough thought to their Linkedin profile titles. Lead titles like “Student at NYU” or job seekers with their old job titles as the headline, are not communicating their qualifications, expertise or intention. If you have a vague or old title like “Senior Copywriter” on your Linkedin profile, recruiters have no idea that you are currently looking for a job.

Students would be better off stating “Advertising Major at New York University‘ as their profile title. Job seekers on the other hand, should put “Experienced Advertising Professional” as theirs. Be honest with your titles and ensure it clearly communicates your expertise and intentions.

4. You haven’t Filled out the Summary Section

If you wish your profile to come up in search results, it is important that you take the time to fill out the summary of your Linkedin profile. Your profile will figure more often on relevant searches if you have the related search terms in the summary. Keywords related to your skills, expertise and the kind of work you’re looking for, will boost your profile visibility to hiring managers that search Linkedin for prospective candidates.

5. You Lack Credible Recommendations

A lot of people mess up with recommendations on their profiles. Not having a recommendation suggests poor professional relations or lack of talent. It is important you have a few credible recommendations from old managers, co-workers, trainers or even professors. The recommendations should be meaningful and not generic like- “she is a hardworking employee with willingness to learn.” Rather, they should talk about specific experiences while working with you on a project. Instead of having statements that could hold true for almost anyone, they should earnestly talk about your accomplishments and qualifications. It is also important that the person recommending you is reputed, knowledgeable and sincere, for the recommendation to hold credibility. A lot of people have their friends post highly exaggerated recommendations that are generously sprinkled with superlatives. Be warned- this is easily identified by professional recruiters, and will do more harm than good.

If so, you're not alone

If so, you’re not alone

Now that you know the top 5 mistakes people make on Linkedin, review your profile immediately to harness the power of Linkedin for professional networking.